Mixed Messages

I heard from Peter after I sent him a message expressing my confusion. I invited him for my birthday. He came out for about 40 hours and then left. I have not heard from him since.

I told him that I was attracted to him and wanted a relationship. He flew out as a one-time visit because I have been so stressed and he felt sorry for me. While I am impressed that he spent $500 to fly across country and cheer me up, I'd rather not be an object of pity.

I hate it when I misjudge someone's character. One of the reasons I liked Peter was because I felt he was thoughtful and genuine. Clearly, this was not true.

Love Lines

George never returned any of my phone calls.

Peter ended up flying out at the last minute for my birthday. Things seemed promising while he was here, but I’ve not heard from him since.

I reconnected with Bren, whom I went out with once three years ago. It’s interesting how people remember things. Bren accused me of standing him up twice. As I remember it, he and I had a date. He called to say he would be late. 45 minutes later – and long after the original start time of our date – he called to say he was not coming.

Love Lines

I’ve not heard from Peter since our conversation at the end of November. This feels like a chapter from He’s Just Not That Into You.

I have, on the other hand, reconnected with George on Facebook. He responds promptly to my messages and, in our one phone conversation, seems like a genuinely nice guy who is interested in what I have to say.

I wish there was some way to issue Peter an un-vitation so that I could have George come down for my birthday bash instead.

Love Lines

I spoke with Peter this morning. He is flying in for my birthday.